I bought a journal last night, and I was all excited about it , then James reminded me that I had a blog, and Now after my $10.77 purchase, I have spent hours modifying and updating this thing. I think that I am on a writing binge, I love it .Remedial math ...
Anywhoo..So I shared "The Unnecessity of dating " with a few friends outside of the blog and Dawn seemed to love the statement "boyfriend and girlfriend isnt a status, it's merely a compound word" something of that nature. And that got me all excited. Then I realized Im not 100% sure that I feel that way. Im sure that I no longer want to put any faith into the whole Dating and titleling system. But , If i am "with" that someone special , and we're out somewhere maybe meeting his family or friends, how will he introduce me? DO NOT CALL ME YOUR FRIEND! I am special! lol , well once emotional bonds have formed and we are spending time etc.What will we say , to differentiate our "person(s)" from the rest of our friends/associates?
See this is where that whole title thing comes in handy ."Hey Stephanie, this is Vanessa...my __________. I mean , this is Vanessa isnt enough . Vanessa WHO? WHY am I being introduced to her? WHAT is she to you ? WHERE did she come from?
GIVE ME A TITLE! Hey Stephanie, this is vanessa, the woman who I have been spending plenty of my free time with and she is SPECIAL to me, we met 5 months ago, I really like her. Naahh! thats too much .Its so much easier to say ./././././././././././././. (drumroll) Girlfriend. isnt it?
ok Nap time- to be continued......
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